by Tony Terranova Fri Jun 12, 2009 11:49 am
My wife Jenny has Huntington's disease (a tough one to fight that one - check it out and see just how tough). She trains at my club and is one of the hardest working students in the club using maximum effort to try and counter the effects of HD and she never complains. The whole club supports, trains and loves her just like they do other students except they make adjustments as needed to compensate for any lack of motor skills the HD is taking away. For example they will hold pads for a low kick rather than mid section or high, they may also slow down the pace to ensure every movement is done with maximum power and balance. They may also modify a drill if it there is any risk of her falling over. Martial arts are about awareness and teaching those with some limitations increases our awareness.
At our club we have a policy that we all train together that is we regularly swap partners to promote a community training spirit, this also helps to support anyone who has some limitations as we share the challenge. Some days are worse than others for Jenny, on those days I may make some other adjustments; for example on one occasion I had her hold the end of a rope which was attached to my hand while delivery round house kicks to a kick shield I had in my other hand – after a few kicks I was able to let go of the rope as she got confidence and calibrated her own movement. Sometimes if she has had a particularly tough day (the nature of the illness is good and bad days with no warning) then that evening I will plan my class lessons in such a way that allows me to coach the whole class while being able to actually personally coach Jenny by getting her to partner me all night. I see it as a test of my coaching skills to try and meet these challenges. She always gives me 100% effort. I often find this is the case with students who have some limitations; they try harder than most and rarely complain. Jenny has taken 3 passed 3 gradings over the past 2 plus years and is hoping to take one more grading in the next few months before it becomes too tough for her to grade. But it does not mean she has to stop training if she wants to continue as many of our students just train and are not concerned with gradings.
Martial arts are a great confidence booster and when trained correctly can give physical, emotional, mental and spiritual benefits. The rise of MMA has been good in terms of bringing to the forefront some home truths about martial arts; however we have lost the old martial ways of respect, humility and service to others. Putting ourselves out to help train others who have some limitations helps brings us back to the core of the martial arts. It is not all about who is best at beating someone – that is only part of it and for a very short time – the journey is long and fruitful if we go back to the original Zen core values. Teaching the less able is a worthy effort.
Regards,
Tony. T