Hey Shane.
I think this debate has been going on for years and years.
My kids are aged as you know caroline and bethany are 7, katie is now 9 and ryan is 13. Being an instructor myself I have played around with ideas of getting them into some form of self defence. Ryan trains with me on and off on a regular basis, but my girls I feel at this moment in time do not have the concentration levels to be able to participate in a class which is an hour long or maybe more depending on style, instructor etc etc.
I started training when I was 8 years old in karate, it was hard enough for me then doing 4 classes a week, 3 of those for 1 hour plus and 2 hours on a saturday. In the end I just saw it as a chore and not something I was completely happy doing but carried on anyway.
Kids at the age of 4, should carry on as far as im concerned being a child, enjoying their kids programs, playing around and being mischevious, A lot would come into play regarding this, attention spands, long term health issues, IE bones not being formed correctly, what exactly they train, how they train. how long the class is. obviously its not the kids idea to do the martial art so why is the parent getting them into this at such an early age.
Personally I think its wrong, I would start my children off on boxing if im honest and its just my opinion, something which teaches basic skills to start where they can get the social interaction they need for day to day life and learn something in the process which keeps them fit and healthy and something which in the long term is a good start to self defence, and a good form of self defence on its own.
as for the age to start, my son started training with me when he was about 9 years old not regularly but doing basic boxing and fun games to enhance his confidence and fitness level, like I say he is now 13, and when we train he trains hard and wants to move onto other things, he is now saying he wants to go and try boxing in a gym with other boys his age. aikido he has done and done that from about the age of 9 or 10. which I think is fine depending on the instructor again and how it is taught.
certainly not 4 years old. and a black belt by the age of 7 is just proposterous as far as im concerned.
Just my two penneth, seemed more like a ramble than an insight, but there we go.
More thoughts on this guys?
Craig