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    Marc1978

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    Dealing With Women

    Post by Marc1978 on Fri Jun 12, 2009 3:11 am

    I think we have all had the experience of 'I'll get my boyfriend to sort you out' so my question is-how do you deal with situations where women are the instigators?

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    Peter Skillen

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by Peter Skillen on Fri Jun 12, 2009 1:08 pm

    I learnt a valuble lesson one night whilst in a nightclub where i worked. I was on a night off and was attacked by a women wielding a full bottle of bubbly. she ran at me and hit me over the head with it acusing me of pinching her mates arse...I knew notrhing of her mates arse and by the looks of it i would have needed two hands...anyway i digress..after the intitail attack i stood trying hold her back not wanting to hit her as she was a women, well a very close representation of one anyway. My friend a seasoned door man at the club came walking over and smacked her clean on the jaw knocking her out then dragged her out the club he came back and took me to the first aid room and whilst cleaning my head up he said "listen pete you could have been killed then" to wich i replied "what could i do i cant hit a women" in wich he replied "if she wants to act like an animal she can get treated like one".... whether man women or child in a self defence situation i always treat people in the same capacity and with the same caution.

    sekibugei

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by sekibugei on Sun Jun 14, 2009 5:51 pm

    Dealing with women is harder, and I find hurts more as well lol, they like to grab and pull rather than punch as a result of that and their long nail -- Ouch.
    I agree, that if a woman wants to behave like an animal she should be treated as such, I remember once fighting with a lad against the car bonnet as he had attacked two paramedics. His girlfriend came out of the house and started kicking me, managed to keep him at bay before pushing her back on her arse into the hedge you should have seen the reaction from other people watching. None of whom were willing to help me but as soon as i pushed a woman you would think she had done nothing to me.

    So I find that when dealing with women, more people are willing to get involved and throw the boot in regardless of what she is doing to you.
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    Abnett

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by Abnett on Mon Jun 15, 2009 10:33 pm

    a tough one, i nearly lost my doorbadge due to being attacked by a drunk off duty female staff member. I threw no punches, just dodged them, spun her round got her in a full nelson and carried her out and dumped her on the pavement outside. She went to the police and made allegations of unprovoked assault. Thankfully the CCTV had it all and I was left to it. When not working and I come across mouthy women, i simply ignore them, unless they go for you try to keep them at distance and if they're drunk, be ready to step back quickly and watch them gracefully fall flat on their face, then to rub it in, just laugh real hard while walking away from the situation. No punches thrown and they've humiliated themselves. Lovely! Laughing

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by sekibugei on Mon Jun 15, 2009 11:51 pm

    This is an interesting article which I have actually kept a cut out from the paper.

    They say that a quarter of all violent assaults are now carried out by women.


    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1187531/Rise-thugettes-Quarter-ALL-violent-assaults-Britain-carried-women.html
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    Mick Tully
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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by Mick Tully on Tue Jun 16, 2009 9:39 am

    The level of response is directly related to the level of threat......regardless of gender........the daily mirror makes some scary reading.....what's with the fairer sex these days?
    A knife is a knife in any hand and does not care.......me?.......I would tackle anybody if I was in the last chance saloon re any confrontation......8st chav or 700lb gorilla.....hopefully never will though
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    karma

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by karma on Tue Jun 16, 2009 12:19 pm

    OK I have an experience to draw on from when I worked the doors .
    I come around the corner in the gaff I'm working in to where the ladies toilets are and I see three girls pulling another girl down by her long hair.There's a fourth in front who I guess is the ring leader and she's giving the girl being held uppercuts to her face.Real lady like, I make a grab for the girl doing the hitting the rest scram .To be blunt it was the closest I've ever come to hitting a woman to really hurt her . Trying to get her out was like trying to bath a cat, she went for my eyes, nuts and tried to bite me she then held on to almost every piece of furniture on the way to the exit.Called both my parentage and my sexuallity in to question then when I finally get her out she wants to complain to the management then the police that I,ve touched her up. The bad girl weren't so keen when the young girl who was beaten up came out and wanted to get the police herself.
    I think the answer here would have been female door staff we just didn't have any.
    As for comebacks she was going to sic her boyfiend on us turned out he was still inside.After a quiet word I think he was glad I'd slung her out

    Marc1978

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by Marc1978 on Tue Jul 07, 2009 8:08 pm

    A very sad example of a female instigator,

    T http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/majornews/2117354/shopper-dies-after-supermarket-attack.html

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    Re: Dealing With Women

    Post by PJ on Wed Jul 22, 2009 5:55 pm

    Yes, a very tricky subject dealing with women.
    Damned if you do and maybe dead if you don't.
    I, like many I suppose have been brought up to never hit a woman. Quite rightly too I think as in most cases it's tantamount to bullying.
    BUT.... Never underestimate women.

    Just a case in point.
    Was walking to work one morning through an area frequented by a lot of junkies/hookers and street people. Two "Girls", who I recognised from the area, both Heroin/Coke addict hookers were harassing a guy.
    They were about 20 yards down the street from me, heading in my direction.
    All of a sudden the guy broke into a run past me with the two "ladies" running after him, screaming abuse.
    After he had made his getaway one of them screams out at him, "You f#####g wanker we wouldn't have stabbed you anyway.
    So.... they turn their attention on me.
    I'd had a run in with the biggest one before 'cos I wouldn't give her money. They approached me screaming abuse calling me all kinds of stuff. The ringleader was my height and build, completely gone on coke and EXTREMELEY aggressive.
    I kept my fence up as I was walking and verbaling and this continued for at least 50 yards. Then the aggressor put her hands behind her back and I thought, "Knife!!".
    Funnily enough I had an expandable baton in my backpack, back pocket and I also put MY hand behind my back to get it out.
    Turns out that she was just bluffing and with a s##t eating grin pulls out a rolled up newspaper from behind her.
    I carried on walking and things finished there. I must admit that I had a massive adrenaline dump and was shaking by the time I got to work.
    If I hit her I'm an asshole for hitting a woman. Also women will lie and tell all the wannabe heroes that you picked on a woman and the next thing is you've got 2 or 3 guys around looking to fill you in for picking on the poor girl. I was lucky in that instance but there's many a guy who has been stabbed to death by a woman.

    Two months later, the very same "girl" had an argument with a guy who lived on the same street when he objected to her soliciting for "clients", outside his house. She attacked him, punched, headbutted and gouged/scratched him around the eyes and face,(Shredder anyone?).
    He ended up with a broken jaw, broken cheekbone and eye socket and, some kind of laceration to his eyes. She ended up with two years.
    I've always thought that women tend to fight more naturally than men.
    Anyway, women can be extremely aggressive and dangerous. They are capable of inflicting a lot of damage, and if you do hit one, in self defence, be ready for a few guys to come around to defend her "Honour"

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