And, as I am embarking on raising my own profile in the Martial Arts world it's something that I have a growing dilema with - perhaps you can all help.
As a martial artists growing up, I was always taught that humility and self control was one of the greatest attributes to develop. From an early age it was drummed into me in a very Traditional Karate Way that the better I become, the more humble I should become. With power comes responsibility.
And I've seen many times over, two top martial artists having a kind of humility stand off where they are so genuinly very humble and respectful of their counterpart that it becomes a battle of who can be the humblest
A: "You're a fantastic martial artist"
B: "No, you're the better martial artists"
A: "No, I think you'll find your way better than me"
B: Sorry, but you're definitely better than me"
Whilst funny, it's actually a beautiful thing to witness. Great people, top of their game, being some humble and polite and courteous as if they were still at the bottom rung of a giant ladder.
However, we now come to the business aspect of Martial Arts. Some avoid this like the plague, but in this day and age, just to have a thriving class takes alot of promotion and advertising, particularly in the early stages.
Myself and Mick have both been blessed with a great Sunday Morning class in Coventry. And with little or no advertising we've managed to grow it to a small, but great group of people, all with a brilliant attitude to martial arts and self protection. But I fully appreciate that to grow this class to one that will actually financially support itself will take lots of marketing and business related efforts.
I now also have some products on the market and whilst I am not looking to become rich as a result of these, I am eager for them to be seen by as many people as possible as I believe I have something that may be of value to at least a few. In order to ensure my product reaches those few, I may have to touch many with them - if that makes any sense.
So my dilema is this.
When I follow my true beliefs as a martial artists and traditional karateka, I am conscious of a need for humility, respect, inner and outer quietness. Attributes that I hope are now normal and not a chore for me to retain.
But to promote what I have to offer to world as a self protection instructor, to get my message to, not only martial artists but the people who are more likely to require this information, I need to self promote, advertise myself and generally tell the world "how great I am" - "come listen to me".
Contrary to popular belief - not something that comes naturally
MacDonalds, whilst in my opinion, offering pretty naff food, would not advertise their new brand of McPlastic Burger as the following:-
"Come try our new McPlastis Burger. Not as good as Burger King down the road, but come try it anyway"
They would always, as does every other company, tell you how great they are and that they are the best in their field.
So I guess my question is this.
As martial artists - be that instructors or students or both, how do you reconcile this conflict between remaining true to the teachings of the art and also promoting yourself without appearing to be a big headed and up oneself?
Stay Safe - Have Fun
Al x